Book Review: Foxy, My Life in Three Acts

by Wild Women Reviews on November 1, 2011

in Book Reviews,Memoirs,Women Writers

9780446548502_154X233I have to admit up front that I am a huge Pam Grier fan, so it’s only logical that I would also love her recent memoir Foxy, My Life in Three Acts. When I found this book on the shelf, I definitely was surprised to realize that although I have seen Pam Grier in many movies and television shows, I knew very little about her personal life. I’m glad that I read the memoir, because it portrays the life of a survivor who has confronted many obstacles throughout her life.

Pam Grier has had one tough life. She was raped as a child, and later raped again as a young adult. She’s been extremely unlucky in the area of love, dating Richard Pryor and Freddie Prinze-two comedians plagued with drug addiction. She was abandoned by her father, and later abandoned by a lover during her battle with cancer. Her life makes my hard life seem easy.

Throughout all of her trials and tribulations, however, Pam Grier emerges as a resilient and strong-willed woman. She throws all her energy and talent into creating a successful career for herself. She refuses to submit to one of the loves of her life or convert to Islam in order to marry him. She eventually walks away from dysfunctional relationships with self-destructive or selfish men. She learns to live a more simple life and depend on herself. She battles cancer and comes out a victor. She is a survivor.

I always enjoy reading memoirs about people who have lived a hard life and have still managed to find peace in their lives. Reading such memoirs often make me think that what I thought was difficult is minor compared to the horrors that other people have had to face. Reading memoirs about women who have remained strong in the face of heartbreak also gives me strength. After reading Foxy: My Life in Three Acts, I now have a newfound respect for Ms. Grier and hopefully after reading it you will too!

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111018-sybil-exposed-vsmall-930a.grid-3x2Warning: This review may contain a spoiler. Sort of.

Ever since I was a young adult I’ve always been obsessed with the story of Sybil, the young girl with multiple personalities. I don’t remember when I first heard about the story, but I’m pretty sure that I saw the mini-series on television and then ran out to buy the book. I was obsessed with it at first-not so much by the issue of multiple personalities, but for the horrible cases of sexual, physical and emotional abuse that a young girl suffered at the hands of her mother.

If you aren’t familiar with the story, it is about a patient by the name of Sybil (a pseudonym) who enters therapy after she finds herself in a strange town with no recollection of what happened to her. As a result of therapy, she uncovers horrible memories of abuse at the hands of her mother and discovers that she has multiple personalities. Sybil is finally cured after working with her psychiatrist and a book is written about her, although her true identity was kept secret from the public.

In the book Sybil Exposed: The Extraordinary Story Behind the Famous Multiple Personality Case, Debbie Nathan embarks on an investigation to uncover the life and story of the real identity of “Sybil”. Her investigation uncovers a web of deceit and unethical practices that center around the lives of three women-an unscrupulous female psychiatrist, an ambitious female author, and an easily manipulated patient who may have been taken advantage of.

Debbie Nathan provides a minor historical context of the mental health profession’s treatment of women-it’s neglect, lack of formal ethics and over diagnosis of hysteria by male medical professionals. Nathan provides an argument that Shirley Mason, the patient also known as Sybil, was an impressionable woman who was oppressed by the rigid rules of her religion and suffered from unexplainable health problems. Nathan’s claims suggest that the entire story about her multiple personalities was manufactured by an ambitious female psychiatrist who provided addictive drugs to Shirley and implanted false memories of abuse that never actually happened.

‘Sybil Exposed’ has left me with even more questions and confusion, which is not necessarily a bad thing. Was Sybil even abused by her mother? Why wasn’t Debbie Nathan ever able to confirm any cases of abuse? Were Shirley/Sybil and her psychiatrist having a relationship? Why did they live together? Did Shirley/Sybil even have any multiple personalities? How were they able to suddenly disappear the moment that her psychiatrist told her that she needed to be cured so that the book could be written? Was Shirley/Sybil taken advantage of by her psychiatrist, cured by her psychiatrist, or was she in on the scam all along? Do multiple personalities even really exist??

Although the book is a bit slow in the beginning as it provides a background of Shirley Mason’s religion (i.e., Seventh Day Adventist) and provides a biography of the central characters in the book (Shirley, the psychiatrist and author), the storyline picks up and is an overall interesting and mysterious story. It’s a must read if you enjoy biography, nonfiction, mental illness, science and issues of feminism.

Have you read ‘Sybil Exposed’? What are your thoughts?

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